earrthh asked:
How to deal with a break up? ):
flowury Answer:
on this page I’ve probably answered this question upwards of 30 times, which I think is nice because it means my answer probably changes marginally each time and I might stand as some beacon of heartbreak for some of you. which, fair. I always say time but The absolute things that comfort me is time spent with loved ones and reading a lot. but not even necessarily lit fic, I get really into the realm of self help, specifically romance, which is so weird but I think I just want to hear first person vouches to know that there may have been some other person that felt marginally as shitty as I currently did. I paid $10 to subscribe to the dear dolly column while I still had tears drying on my face LOL. I scrolled the breakup Reddit for hours. Heartbreak is so debilitating it makes me think, how does anyone go through this? How does anyone recover ?? How do people eventually make jokes about this ??? but then you go through it and recover and then make jokes about it. I remember reading one of the columns, and there was this section about wanting to hibernate until the unbearable pain of existence subsided, but her friend across the table grabs her and says - but, you will never feel more alive! Which is true! it’s like your whole existence has been skinned and there’s a light breeze. also I am a Pisces
mandatory sad girl readings :
